"Crimpy and Xx_snud_xX are abusers." "Inflation_Gary is LITERALLY a gaslighter." "Mingus and Bonko are doing elder abuse scams on a private darkweb server that violated pet play consent." We are teetering on the brink of a permanent planet-wide psychotic break. Log off.
I block anyone who annoys me or gives me a bad vibe and my life is infinitely better than it was when I brooded on unpleasant interactions until they became Things in their own right, reflective of the world around me. Shut up. Read a book. Make a friend.
Grabbing the kids by the shoulders and telling them that having friends who aren't all in some weird omnidirectional online panopticon-polycule situation will keep you from getting your brain turned into coleslaw. Form a book club or something.
I'm so grateful when a kind and generous mufo got WAY too caught up in the drama and decided to take indefinite hiatus. Like, please, stop touching the hot stove, as an act of self-love.
It's a shame there isn't a kinder way to say "maybe you'd be happier if you logged off" because, oh mama, when some people get in a certain way, you know they'll take that as the worst betrayal
Sometimes the worst people also come up with the dumbest names for themselves, which really should be the giant neon warning sign about their past/present/impending misdeeds but somehow isn't 🤷♀️🤦♀️😟