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What's next for Bluesky? We're working on some of your most requested features: DMs, video, improved Custom Feeds, better anti-harassment features, and a new login tool called "OAuth" Check out the roadmap here: bsky.social/about/blog/0...
Product Roadmap - Blueskybsky.social What’s coming next? Over the next few months, we’ll be introducing some long-requested features.
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Can DM be made selective, so you can choose who can DM you?
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Yes! We'll start with 3 things you can choose from: off, people you follow, or anyone
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And the default will be people you follow, is that correct?
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We've been discussing this and I don't want to talk out of turn, but of the 3 options do folks generally feel that would be the best default?
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emphatically throwing my two-cents in for the default of dms being "from accounts you follow" ☺️
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I agree that that default would be ideal for many reasons. It's how most people would use DMs; it'll also prevent ugly surprises for big accounts, and for anyone who's been off the platform for a while who suddenly comes back after DMs launch.
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From accounts you follow with request option from accounts you don't follow. If it's a brand new account there needs to be a hold somehow to prevent spam.
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YES. Please never auto-opt in any all-inclusive updates or features. Everyone hates that!
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bad actors have been making burner accounts for a couple of weeks just to tell trans women they're men. if you default to "from everyone", guess what's going to happen before people can react and change their settings.
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every single change you make, every feature you add, you need to approach from the following: - what is the maximum amount of harm i could do with this? - what is the likely amount of harm in [some window of time] that will occur before further changes must be discussed?
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Yeah "from everyone" has not been a strong contender in our debates
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WTAF is wrong with people?
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People you follow, PLEASE (if not Mutual Follows Only)
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PLEASE I would love nothing more than for unsolicited DMs from strangers to be off by default.
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Off because there will likely be some bug that crops up in the future that temporarily defaults everyone to the default, and Off both highlights the bug when it happens and keeps people that have it off for safety reasons safe.
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Fuuuck I wish that wasnt such a good point
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One of the few bugs that you know will appear from time to time, so might as well design for when rather than hoping it doesn’t occur.
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Fail closed is often the right policy in many circumstances
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For sure, makes sure new users know the feature exists while also protecting people from spam/brigading by default
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Yeah, anything but auto-on.
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I think everything should default to off, as long as people are informed about it, just like all the autoplay should be off by default, etc. but that's just imo
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Speaking as a trans woman who set my DMs on Twitter to that the second I realized I was about to be a woman online: Yes that's the best default by far
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Why yes. Yes it would. Thank you for asking us folks.
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Definitely off by default. Thank you tho for being considerate and shipping this feature with an option to close them right from the start!
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Also voting for 'people you follow' as the default!
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agreed. and, open to everybody is the *worst* choice for default from an anti-harassment perspective.
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Although on further reflection, "off by default" might be better. And there might be other useful visibility levels, like "only allow from people on a list". It's worth doing some social threat modeling to get it right.
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Default should be “off”. All tech that potentially invades one’s space or privacy should default to opt-in, not opt-out.
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follows only and then pop up when you open dms for the first time
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People the user follows only.
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sorry turbo paul I am rethinking this now and the DEFAULT should be "off" with the others as options. For the love of god do not make the default "everyone," this is a choice every person has to make for themselves.
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Everybody gets one (1) hit on my arm if we do default everyone
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The software doesn't quiiiite work right yet. That's why hitting Paul is called a punch buggy
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make it at least one per unwelcome message
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Open all-season DMs should only ever be opt-in only. Off or follows-only default is the best option.
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follows only seems fine as a default
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one request i have is for new dms to be placed into a separate message requests screen if it's been set to all
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Although I'm likely to just have my DMs open, I firmly believe the default should be "OFF." Options of "followers," "following," and "mutual" might be a top-tier selection.