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very honestly coming around to the view that the paradigm of non-toxic, community-driven masculinity we need can be shorthanded by "dudes rock"
It's fun to slag on teenage boys but IMO they're not so much ideologically right-wing as they are desperate for the approval and mentorship of older dudes a lot of the time, and we are letting them down on that score (either by trying to indoctrinate them or not interacting with them at all).
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curiosity, perseverence, fellowship, sprawl: it's all there!
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Resilience is another big one. Gettin’ back up on that horse, &c. Dude coded, also extremely valuable.
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yeah maybe grit or resilience is a better word than perseverence?
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I like grit because it also connotes character, like doing the right thing instead of the easier shortcut.
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Same. All three actually have slightly different valences.
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Angela Duckworth’s book on grit is interesting, kind of a combination of conscientiousness and perseverance. This is reminding me that I’ve been meaning to do a dive into this stuff, feels like there’s been a lot of research in this area since I last took psych 20 years ago.
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also gets us away from the Mars Rover thing, which is both plus and minus
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Mars Rover is extremely, indeed almost paradigmatically, dudes rock.
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A lot of the good space programs are. Voyager, Hubble. Apollo was I think on the hubristic side.
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Agree on Apollo at a program level, but in a way that hubris enabled the very Dudes Rock moment of Apollo 13.
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"dudes rock" does not exclude hubris I don't think
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I think it is essentially hubristic to some degree, in the main.
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Apollo is still the gold standard, though Apollo 1 was the programs biggest black eye. Dudes, on the moon, rocking.
Dudes, on the biggest rock you can see in the sky, rocking, while collecting rocks.
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I think you've just identified a key element of why 17776 works that I had not previously thought to examine.
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How dudes rock is something? How many fist bumps went into the conception and execution? It’s not a bad initial metric.
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remember when "grit" was the exclusive domain of grifters?