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With “allies“ like these who needs enemies
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This chat started with her sending me a bbc article claiming Labour wasnt anti trans like i was saying btw
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She so literally said she has a trans sister in law as some defense for being an asshole and explaining my oppression back to me and how its not that bad
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"it's not that bad" they say, because from their perspective their thinly veiled platitudes are equal to actually doing something to help
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She so badly wanted to believe just that cause thats probably the extent of her allyship
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oh but i posted "Trans rights are human rights!" once, why are you turning on me
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I passively tolerate you and cheer at pride isnt that being an ally????? No get to fuck
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Do they not even listen to Starmer's words? Like, do they... think he's lying, but only about the things they want him to by lying about? Fucking bullshit
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And not even his vibes, just... imagined vibes. Wishful vibes. Bizarre fandom behaviour. (Thanks @docphoenix.bsky.social for that framing!)
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But his vibes are rancid too!
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like, there's no point picking apart everything - but it's clear this person doesn't engage with things beyond just a headline?
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Yes, literally yes. The centre left position is that he's only saying these things to get into power and then once he is ;) he'll go left. They don't really like it when I point out that means we both think he's a massive liar.
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"people on boats dying" - christ that's low. How about the fucking trans teens (& not only teens) who are dying because they're denied adequate care - either I guess they don't count, or they're not as important as those poor bastards drowning in the channel. Fuck me
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Tone policing AND whataboutism? That’s nearly the whole “ally” bingo card right there.
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legitimately reform party behavior but they drink prosecco and have EU flag PFPs
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It's incredible not only that they are not willing to believe you, but also not believe Keir Starmer who has literally said so
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But earlier he said we deserve dignity and respect!!!! And he was mad rishi upset that cis lady that one time about a trans joke!!! Who cares what the actual trans people say
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It's insane and disheartening
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"fixation" like it's just some vague concept or idea. some hobby. like our actual fucking human rights are just so unimportant.
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Wow cant believe youre fixated on keeping your rights while we party that we got the tories out smh
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the liberal mind cannot comprehend any actual policy reason for wanting the tories out
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Have we coined a term for this yet? Cissplaining, terfsplaining etc
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I told her i was more offended than if she had called me a slur
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I mean the ONLY way Labour want to "streamline the transition process" is so they can remove the requirement for trans people to use public facilities appropriate for them, because they fully intend to try to ban them from using those exact feckin facilities. That's literally IT.
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Yeah kinda feels like streamlining GRCs feels pretty pointless if they strip us of being able to exist otherwise: “look your paperwork will acknowledge your ‘gender identity’ in death which is good because we sure as hell won’t recognize it in your life, why aren’t you happy?”
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Keeping the grc just shows they have no intention of introducing self id. The thing trans people actually want and what would be progress proven to work in other countries.
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Absolutely. I have zero good feelings about that horrible grey nasal authoritarian twat becoming pm.
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Me neither, he’s sure showing his transphobic colours and it makes me really depressed about the future
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And the thing is, if he'd kept his trap shut about it for the last month he'd still be sauntering into a huge majority. So this isn't for votes. He's showing us who he is, not for approval, but precisely because he doesn't need OUR approval any more.
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Not letting trans people in to their preferred space is REALLY obvious transphobia.
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"your view" mother fucker this is someone's human rights
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Sounds more like they still think the bbc is trustworthy
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I think the problem with people like her is that they never do their own research to see if something is true or not; so they end believing anything that is told to them.
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Unless its by the affected group apparently
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Allie or stupid fuck with a crush?
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My goodness i had not even considered this
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Sorry you have an ally like that. Maybe I'd have more hope if it's Labour under Corbyn, but Starmer is a lighter Tory & Labour under him is more Tory. Only good reason I can see for voting Labour is to keep Tories out, things will be awful, just not as awful. I'd love Green to win, but they won't.
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Still vote green. Make your voice heard.
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I voted LibDem rather than green, but that was because the LD candidate is a trans woman I know (www.mcrlibdems.uk/central ) and the Green is a former Labour Councillor.
Chris Northwood, candidate for Manchester Centralwww.mcrlibdems.uk Join Chris's campaign for a fair deal for Manchester Central
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I'd like to, it's pretty much an argument between head & heart, i'd feel dirty voting Labour but Tories get bolder with every win & are dirtier. Labour are the tactical vote for my area. We've also been a Tory safe seat, but current opinion polls show a chance of flipping it.
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Well congrats on maybe getting a red tory instead of a blue one! Hope that makes up for voting against my human rights!