What I think is fascinating here (other than…. Everything) is that she’s also trending into the language of sex negative, anti kink radical feminism. What’s the over under on when she’s going to start saying that it isn’t possible to have consensual sex with men.
It’s a lot like being a Zionist in that it’s an ideology born out of fear and motivated by fear. There’s always something more to be afraid of, always a new way you’re being victimized, no one is safe.
yep. it's why I have a weird fascination with radfems. misogynistic damage has convinced them that no one consents to anything and people being horny is the cause of all woes in life. this is different from the Church because we say so.
I would pity her if she wasn’t so dangerous but it’s sad how irrationally afraid she is of everyone. Like, get therapy, lady instead of hassling strangers
Terfs internalize that patriarchy is pervasive and brutal, and to be a women is to be subjected to it. Sans liberation work, they fall into self-loathing defensiveness about womanhood. Transwomen especially are suspect because who would voluntarily be a woman? Only someone sick and/or malicious.
The classic, "I'm going to rant about genitals, bathrooms, and changing clothes in front of other people to convince you that *they* are the weirdo fetishists!"
Political lesbians drive me up the wall because actual lesbians who are actually attracted to women also have fetishes. We’re not pure beings free of base desire. I want to bring these folks to like ten minutes of a leather dyke party or meetup. I think they’d implode.
When I first learned about political lesbians it made me want to scream lmao like loving women isn’t a political exercise it’s a lived reality. Also I would love if my sex partner was actually attracted to me!!!!!!!!
I can't be the only one reading this like she backed some dude into a corner and close-talked non-consensual sex things at him, her sour, wine-soaked breath in his face. He squirmed away and now she's reporting back grandly: "HE AND ALL STRAIGHT MEN WON'T HANDLE TRUTH LIKE THEY HANDLE A NEGLIGEE."
Not even joking, if this had been posted as anon, I’d have read the entire encounter as the op being a potential sexual predator. At best oblivious to their toxic disrespect of boundaries. At worst, believing they have a right to other people’s bodies. This is scary
It’s like, is it a good idea to hold the intellectual exercises about sex and consent that radical feminism explores? Yeah sure. But also uhhhhhh don’t take it too serious.
I invited a leftist to my literal castle and started shouting to him across the dinner table about my pet obsession and for some reason he didn't seem thrilled
Seriously. If real, I hope he distances himself bc he deserves better friends. The kind who respect his boundaries and don’t keep sexually harassing him about his kinks when he’s clearly stated he’s uncomfortable with the subject.
Oh, she is absolutely going to dive headfirst into openly sex-negative, puritanical bullshit at some point. That shit goes hand in hand with “the only correct way to be a Woman TM is to abide by blatantly sexist, reductive guidelines re: appearance and behavior”.
The kink bit is super odd. Do one's friends list what they're into? No, not normally, why would they? Well I can put together a panel who can list all straight male kinks. A) Doubt it B) What would be the point? All straight men/people in general are different.
How many times can she type "my friends really don't like talking to me about this thing, the only thing I ever bring up to them anymore" before realizing the real problem?
