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If they do put Kamala Harris on the top of the ticket, I am prepared for a level of misogynoir unwitnessed since Rosa Parks sat down on that bus.
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been thinking about that. the racism re: Obama was bad enough, but the misogynist would be next level
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she hasn't really spoken about it much since stepping down but it's believed to be a big, big part of why jacinda ardern stepped down from the PM role. Which wouldn't surprise me in the slightest if it's 100% true.
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Is it too simplistic of me to say anonymity should be removed from all social media? I know, some people need it for valid reasons but the net damage is fukn enormous
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it wouldn't help. Facebook is still a cesspool even with their real name policy
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True. But in a little country like Aotearoa maybe it would put a lot of social pressure on people not to be C***s?
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go look at your city, or regional council's facebook page, and checkout the comments 🤣
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Yeah. Studies show a lack of anonymity makes things worse. We’ll be centuries untangling just what the Internet has done to us mentally and socially.
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i can't remember what part of the country you're in but the hamilton city council's page is always an endless parade of endless whingeing.
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I live in a fairly small town and our local FB scene is a fucking gong show of dickheads
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l live in a tiny rural town. It doesn't slow people down at all.
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My neph isn't allowed on FB because he insists on using his real surname, Jimenez Compton, and they think it's fake
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that's like the 4th time this week that song has popped up, and coupled with my mother playing "poi e" on repeat for who knows what reason in the weekend, I am at my limit with nz music 🤣
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your nephew shouldn't be allowed on facebook because it rots people's brains.
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I'm reminded of fb asking me to fill out a survey because they wanted to know how I felt about something and I've never been so disappointed...like "you mfers been mining my data for more than a decade and a half, and have the audacity to pause now and ask me what I think?"
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facebook: how do you feel? us: you already fucking know
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Yeah but the sad part is they don't. They think we wanted more VR goggles.
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I'm so old I remember when people only spewed vitriol on the internet under handles and aliases Facebook normalized acting like a complete dink while posting under your real name
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I used to believe this was true, but I no longer do.
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I think about this graphic at least once a week, and yes, agreed. All people need now is an audience.
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Have you seen the things people post under their own names in legacy newspapers??
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Ok, I've seen the error of my assumption from multiple angles now, lol
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I mean go look at linkedin. That place isn't any less toxic and it's exclusively for people looking to network with their real identities. and that ignores the dangers to literally everybody if you don't let people organize anonymously.
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That's fucked up. Why people do dumb
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For some people, like me, anonymity is necessary. I’m a children’s book author, and 90% of my takes are rated R.
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To make matters worse, my Facebook account, which I thought I deleted a year ago, was recently hacked and I’m locked out. It’s a nightmare for my reputation
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Yes it most certainly is, people get killed without the protections of anonymity
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I've worked in that space for 20+ years, and bear in mind that there's a long list of countries where the outcome for, "being queer" is a swift lynching
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Or, "I posted something negative about Putin from Donbas under my legal name now my family is in a mass grave"
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Fun fact: The engineers and management at Twitter way back when got a call from the State Department during the Arab Spring to postpone some routine maintenance -- because it was the most reliable method they had access to for keeping contact with assets on the ground
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Wow. Someone (Elon) sure ruined that tho eh
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Boy howdy, I certainly wouldn't be organizing against Erdoğan from Istanbul on Twitter these days
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No, that just limits the right to act badly to those who already hold privileged positions.
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The research shows that real name policies do not make social media better. Sometimes they make it more vicious. Overwhelmingly the "best" experience is had in environments where anonymity is allowed. (I will try to find citations!)