The author is a senior fellow at the AEI, which has spent decades successfully lobbying for policies that have made it prohibitively difficult for people to even get by, much less have multiple kids. "We've made it too difficult to have multiple kids" indeed. Real guy-in-a-hotdog-suit stuff here
I think this kind of stuff is written by and for people who think of themselves as "normal Americans" even though they're in the top 10% of wealth. (Such people, absurdly enough, do not consider themselves "wealthy".) For them, family size is mostly about choice of lifestyle.
My realization is that, as long as I rely on a monthly paycheck, no matter the size of that paycheck, I am "working class." Only if I can take care of my family even if all I do is finger paint all day, am I "upper class."
Anyway, WaPo publishes (clearly marked) opposing opinions. This is good.
The profit at all costs AEI?
The no rights for workers AEI?
The ones that don't want to regulate all the shit that gives kids cancer, and wants them working in slaughterhouses. Literally the same people saying it's too hard to have kids. Bold.
Having watched big families become a status symbol is really something after several generations of my Irish Catholic family being shamed for having ... too many children.
A societies / families become richer, children transition from an asset / part of your retirement planning into a liability. Kids are incredibly expensive these days. And so, they become a form of conspicuous consumption...
As someone who wanted more children than she wound up having, I truly want to launch this discourse into the sun. Sure, I’ll just turn the baby dial on my uterus and boom my kid will get a sibling, easy as that!
No offense take and sometimes it's good to say out loud the answer to a rhetorical question.
I guess my lament isn't "what?" so much as "how did this bullshit get pushed back into the mainstream so easily?"
As the eldest of 4 who spent her (and it's always her) childhood heavily parentified (and my father denies this) the author can disrespectfully fuck allllll the way off.
My brother has five kids and I love them all to death, but they have two parents, a babysitter, and four grandparents just to help handle the day-to-day logistics. I don't want to know which kid in that story is making dinner. I want to know which one is Head of HR.
If he's to be believed in "what they don't do," as a family, he's probably exploiting some form of free labor, like an exchange student. In addition to relying on the oldest kids to do most of the cooking, cleaning, teaching, and babysitting, of course.
Definitely. He's sitting there in silence with his wife, enjoying the sound of his kids playing. He claims she is too.
But really?! She's in labor; I think she's got other things on her mind. But he liked the way that sounded. He's clueless.