My best advice is to follow lots of Jews and then don’t believe anything you hear because the number one rule of Judaism is we disagree on everything 🤣
(Seriously we have a 2,700 page religious text w/517 chapters that is just rabbis arguing with each other about religious laws and practices.)
I remember how shocked I was the first time I saw it & asked the cantor what the bulk of the text was on each page. (It looked like David Foster Wallace gone wild.) “The disputes.”
Same. Also that the disputes include how to get a snake out of a vagina (Shabbat 110), Rabbi Yochanan's defense of interesting sex (Nedarim 20), and a very weird story about how a demon banished King Solomon (Gittin 68).
yeah I honestly love how Talmudic scholars would argue over the interpretation of a small bit of text for 500yrs, only to finally go "ah well guess we'll never know"
Bonus: follow enough Jewish folks long enough and when the food arguments break out you'll end up with the BEST collection of recipes.... Which reminds me, I should make some babka.
Listening to Jewish posters over the years has definitely affected my overall philosophies in a very positive way. (I’m very into community support/repair.)
Are you thinking of the Oven of Akhnai? That's one where God says the one rabbi everyone disagrees with is actually right, and the other rabbis say "too bad, it's still 12 against 2, overruled."
I've done workshops in a lot of places and contexts, and the cultures that are all about staring at the instructor in respectful silence and/or not asking questions in front of each other, oof that's a lot of effort, and anxiety.
A can confirm we do not agree about anything.
The joke is that if there are two Jewish people in a town, there's three synagogues - one for one person, one for the other and the one neither of them go to.