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This is why we shouldn’t put men on a pedalstool. I’m shocked to see so many people ignoring this. He is an active user on bluesky we have to be consistent. Believe all victims
Neil Gaiman denies sexual assault of two young womenwww.telegraph.co.uk The alleged victims claim the best-selling author engaged them in sadomasochistic acts and told them to call him ‘master’
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This looks very bad to me. "Had established consent" (by directly asking?) is a sensible standard in many situations, but not with 1) An employee 2) In his house 3) Just after meeting her. Completely ignores power in the situation, and the ability to coerce. Very bad indeed.
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Great summary and yes it’s beyond bad
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Wondering if this was what was behind the 'I had to break various laws to flee New Zealand and make for my cottage in Scotland during Covid because it was urgent' thing.
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Maybe the police reports were made against him in Britain. It would actually make a lot of sense.
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scarlett filed a NZ police report against him shortly after the assault in 2022, not sure about others off the top of my head
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And then we let him back in, whilst 1000s of others, including NZ citizens, couldn't. Wanker.
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It's a topic of much irritation to me that his wife made a very conscious choice to stay in NZ BEFORE official lockdown and summoned him and their kid to join from overseas, but went on about how they were stranded here. There were zero restrictions on leaving NZ.
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When she announced her departure the whole cafe stood up and applauded
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I wish we'd been clearer about this to her so she fucked off, because she's a deranged psychopath
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His PR was a machine that story got washed away so quickly
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So many folk stuck overseas, but not him
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never thought I'd be happy that Terry Pratchett was dead, so he wouldn't have to find out about this
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You know what? I'm happy, because I'm afraid we would find out he would stand by Gaiman with some kind of "I never saw that" thing, or worse.
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Allegedly it was well known.
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there were users here who described him as a "whisper network ticking time bomb"
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fucking nerd culture is just horrible you just cannot trust those dudes they're not fucking silly little guys, they see women as collectibles
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Oh god you're right, I went and searched and Jill Krajewski posted this 6 months ago.
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Which is where the or worse comes from.
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gwen: yeah, this is very grim. even if, as he claims, these encounters were consensual, one of them was with an 18 year old fan and that's at the very least an unhealthy power dynamic. hoping that people just haven't seen this yet and aren't actively choosing to ignore it
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He credibility became completely void when he admitted to having sexual relationships with said fan and his live in nanny
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Toxic. In many ways worse profoundly worse than a proud and loud misogynist does this. When you mouth the right words, say the right things, build a brand based on you being a decent person, and use THAT power to abuse, it's an extra level of betrayal.
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Absolutely it makes it even more nefarious if that’s even possible
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It's very similar to what happened with Warren Ellis (although Ellis always marketed himself as a "mad bastard" and not the nicest guy you'd ever want to have tea with, so it shocked people less).
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Ghomeshi, here in Canada, had a Women's Studies minor. It's a shocking betrayal.
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I didn't know about this and I spend a lot of time online
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gwen: yeah the news broke today afaik so I don't blame you for not seeing it
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it was last night in my time zone, I think; a lot of people will still be catching up on what they missed while asleep
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It was all over my timeline; I think people believe the victims & aren’t ignoring this. But it just came out yesterday, and people may be reluctant to drive traffic to a transphobic media source. Once it’s reported out by reputable media you’ll see more of it.
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This is genuinely upsetting because the movie Coraline meant so much for me, and to find the guy who wrote the original novel is just another of these pieces of shit... and also a lot of the stuff described here is really triggering for me. Fuck him. I hope everyone knows what a monster he is.
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agreed with the pedestal thing, but also I really don't think it's *that* hard for men to not do stuff like this
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It's not hard to not be that kind of asshole at all.
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Yeah none of this is defensible imo
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I keep an open mind because I have two female relatives who are compulsive liars.
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Tbh. i'm a bit confused. I try to read up on the whole thing (because right-wing-podcasts usually aren't the most trustworthy sources) and i struggle to find out where Gaimans "answer" comes from. Did he reply to a News Portal? Is there an interview of sorts? He's suspiciously quiet on bsky.
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Everything i can find just circles back to the Podcast again, which makes Double-ckecking the source kinda hard. But if his "excuse" really was exactly this "oh No No. It was consensual and she just misremembers".... Screw the guy
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We shouldn't put ANYONE on a pedestal as a perfect person.
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Ok but specifically men
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Yes, male social patterns encourage VERY bad behavior.