Pookleblinky: This is probably part of why everyone on bluesky is 38 years old: 38 year olds are basically the only people who consider it totally normal to flee a sinking ship and then just casually resume the conversation on the tropical island they end up on. They've outlived dozens of ships.

There's an interesting problem in digital preservation, which is that preservation only exists actively. Only the things you actively move to new formats, survives. Community is probably the same way: it has to be actively maintained in order to outlive whatever spot it's currently in.

The ideal social media is not actually any particular instance, but an up to date contact list. Everything else is details, and every hangout spot will inevitably go rancid.

That game you love vanishes if no one bothers to crack it and pirate it and emulate it. That person you like, vanishes if the ground turns sour and you didn't figure out a way to find them after fleeing elsewhere.

If you're gen x or millennial, odds are you have known some people online for *decades*. Across multiple now-dead forums, across vast gulfs of time in internet years. You've probably got a friend group that outlived multiple sites.

Which is interesting. Gen X and millennials grew up having to learn how to use computers, how to go online, etc. One of these skills later generations didn't learn, was how to reconnect outside walled gardens.

If you're over the age of 30, your first internet friends were outside walled gardens, they didn't really exist yet. You found them, and then found them in half a dozen different places none of which were the really *important* thing. The important thing was they were there.

If you're *under* the age of 30, pretty much all you've known were walled gardens, you didn't really need to learn the skill of finding a friend hanging out somewhere else.

This is probably part of why everyone on bluesky is 38 years old: 38 year olds are basically the only people who consider it totally normal to flee a sinking ship and then just casually resume the conversation on the tropical island they end up on. They've outlived dozens of ships.

People who are much older, are busy oogling shrimp jesuses and big boobied centaur women on facebook. People who are much younger, only know 3 or 4 walled gardens and only maybe 1 has died on them so far.

People right there in the middle, though: they grew up before the walled gardens existed, when you had to learn how to form a community that could outlive places, and then did so for decades. Hopping from sinking ship and burning building repeatedly their whole lives, finding their friends again.

And, weirdly, this same group of people are also the ones who also learned how to preserve their media the same way. Not *only* do they still talk to a person they met on ICQ 25 years ago, but they still have the same rip of a movie they pirated then too, or such.

The same generational cohort that learned how to actively preserve community beyond temporary hangouts, *also* learned how to actively preserve their media. In mostly the same way.

I spent months of my life looking for a song that I first heard on Youtube and got taken down, now I can't find it anywhere else. While it was live, I had both the idea and the opportunity to download it to my hard drive and preserve it forever, but I didn't. The same can happen to communities.

Indeed, the same has already happened to me with some friends I used to play online games with 15 years ago. I don't have a way to reach out to them anymore, and I don't even know if they're still alive.

Oh gods my notifications lmao

you never found the song? what was it?

This is why I cling to physical media. It is MINE I must KEEP it!

I have a group of friends mostly in our 40s who are currently in a Discord server after we finally migrated off IRC a few years ago. The community started in the late 90s. And not long ago one of them hooked me up with a lossless rip of a CD I'd had in high school but lost.

Oh, and it's been so long that I totally forgot that the core of the group started on AOL.

… IRC still existed a few years ago?!

our tendency to preserve media actually reminds me a lot of the way people who grew up during the great depression learned to stash away nonperishable food.

Always Be baCking up your data!

I’m 50, so I’m a little older, but everything you’ve said here applies to me. I’ve still got friends from down the street when I was 8, to email lists and most every SocMed that’s been interesting (RIP Ello) My media stays in flux from cassettes/records on through terabytes of digital files 1/

Some of my best friends are scattered across the globe, and I’ve spent IRL time with many of them. But I’ve also been an outsider of sorts in my generation. They missed my neurodivergency, and no one understood why I never wanted to fully “grow up”. I’ve just always been weirdo ME 🤷‍♂️

One of the few redeeming features of Facebook for me is the community I belong to there that consists of the vast majority of the LiveJournal community we were in twenty years ago. Stumbling from wreck to wreck, trying to stay friends with people across the world.

Hello fellow former LJer!

Hard same.

My uncles both had a thing for buying out videos from closing rental stores. I've been going through cassettes to rip with my Elgato.

Might be worthwhile to check if there's already better sourced stuff of the particular version of media you're ripping. Lot of stuff that was in rentalhouses never made it forward but a lot did and these days there's multiple niche companies that do insane restorations of obscure stuff. :)

Counterpoint: I learned to let everything die. Form no attachments in the knowledge that sooner or later, I will have to let all things rejoin the dust from whence they came. And yes, same for all these movies and games I pirated decades ago. Look, I'm definitely not saying that was correct.

I have never felt so attacked for having a 7 digit icq number and a Plex server (excellent thread)

oooh six digit here! SIX! I once had to contact the yahoo domain admins to get my old geocities email active long enough to reset the creds on it ICQ will stop working on jun 26 but you and I, man, we'll remember

I’m a little over 40. I definitely have multiple internet friends who I always find at “the next place”, almost like magic sometimes. There are even a couple that I still keep tabs on that i’ve known since AOL days. Literally. Crazy to think about, tbh…

As @greyduck.bsky.social can testify I’ve been using Lyse or a specific variant (when “lyse” was taken) online since the time of AOL chat, Usenet’s, and Juno email. Makes it fairly easy to find me for those that want to look.

I still have mp3 files that I downloaded on Napster back in 1999 or something. Just transferring it from hard drive to hard drive over the years

An embarrassing amount of my music folder came from iPods I had access to and made a clone of. Occasionally I'll be like "eww, .m4a" and get a better discography.

I saw someone post some lost media on Tumblr (a 90s showgaze band that released only on cassette before dissolving into new projects called Clayflower) but Tumblr is no place at all for preserving media so I went into the assets in the code and downloaded them.

Actually I went online to check and see if anyone else was looking for it and provide a link - someone had brought it up on r/lostmedia - so I made a whole post up to tell them I saw someone had found and posted it! ...only for the site to autoreject me because my karma was too low.

I mean,I'm 22,but I hate to be in the same place with people that spewed out stupid shit like elon musk in twitter(yes,it's twitter.It will never be X).He is just one guy whom he thinks that he is way way "superior",but with racism,sexism,homophobia,transphobia,apartheid-ism,are there more of them?😬

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Somebody referred to X as "Vichy Twitter" and I've been sticking with it.

Could you put this together into a blog post or something? This thread is excellent but I can't share it since your account isn't visible to non-logged-in users.

I've got hard drives full of stuff I pirated back in the 2000's when I was too poor to buy physical and streaming didn't exist. A ton of old fan sub anime that didn't have proper releases over here ever or until much later. It's this fun little digital time capsule of my teen years.

The generational divide between those who want a MicroSD card slot on their phone and those who wonder why people need one.

we are young but life is long and there are drives to fill today and then one day you find terabytes of music never played

I maintain contacts via steam, discord, telegram and a handful of sites of varied actuvity. I'd still use AIM if it wasn't dead. Skype can die in a fire.

Hello, it is me, a person currently listening to an mp3 player, in the year of our lord 2024.

I still have ascii files of the lyrics to filk songs (among many other oddities) that I downloaded from dialup BBSes in the early ‘90s.

am i making this up or is it increasingly common among zoomers to believe stuff like "its stealing when you're saving someone's artwork to your computer"?? i really dont know if im making this up but i noticed a trend and related it to the rumor of "young ppl dont save and preserve files they like"

(for the record i am merely a baby-millennial myself)

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