just read the phrase "mixed-weight relationship." think i'm gonna go stare directly into the sun until it sets, then i might wander barefoot into the woods and let whatever happens happen
it's horribly old and maybe even from the trenches of ed livejournal? it was 20 damn years ago i first clicked on some of this toxic BS and some of these forums are still around
I have a theory on this.
Some people cannot hear language specifically crafted for talking about issues of actual harm or injustice without thinking "this should also apply to my pet peeve"
My ur-example will always be "woke". A useful word for referring to awareness of structural racism and injustice, hijacked by 2016 liberals to mean "socially progressive" and then immediately hijacked by 2017 conservatives to mean both "anything even slightly progressive" and "communist paedophile"
Emotional labor shifting from acts people do under capitalism to regulate their own emotion in order to serve their employer to being a friend always bugs me
I mean, fatphobia is structural and I think there is a time and place to talk about couples in fiction where one is fat and the other is not. Obviously, that doesn't excuse the racism.
Usually both partners have to weigh in like jockeys and then the lighter one has to carry weights to make up the difference so everything is fair fair.
oh people are wild about this shit. they do not think fat people deserve love and they get EXTRA weird when we are loved by people who are judged as more conventionally attractive than we are (often thinner)
You kid, but I have an Android and my girlfriend has an iPhone and it's a legitimate problem for her. We use WhatsApp just so she doesn't have to see my green bubbles pop up
WSL for the win! Windows is a corporate standard, Windows System for Linux adds Linux commands to the Windows CLI and a bash shell for the complete Linux experience
I mean, almost every guy that is into me is either the most skeletal little thing or an insanely jacked gym bro. I'm not sure I could do anything other than "mixed-weight" if I tried lol. Absolute cursed term ffs.