yeah it’s super odd. he keeps asking different trans femmes about hrt so i think he is an 🥚 that saw queer people brunching outside & invited himself over lmao
Could very well be - there is also a chance that he is the kind of dude that has a curious, non-scared brain
Apart from inviting myself, i'd probs do the same without being an egg
"I think I may be gender ambivalent because I'd be fine if I was born as a girl"
*rants about not understanding "other" cis men for the next hour*
"But yeah, I'm totally fine being a guy..."
"I've never felt comfortable when it's dude time and oh yeah I did want to be a girl when I was younger but I'm totally just a bisexual cis guy who likes women and feels like the relationships he ends up in are lesbian relationships "
oh yeah totally no signs at all
The only people I've ever heard refer to themselves as male lesbians were either sneering frat boy types or they're girls now.
These may not be mutually exclusive sets.
IDK about the latter.
Cracked Eggs are naturally unpredictable.
It may take years to claw out from under studiously protracted self-oppression & finally allow oneself permission to embark on the fearsome task of self-maturation usually reserved to the resilience of adolescence.
Por ejemplo:
Boomer friend was sure she was straight. Cute attempts to conjure attraction to males even trying to identify her ‘new’ type.
Then on 5/18/80 walked into a room where an average Butch smiled at her.
Many have said it was at that exact moment Mt. St. Helens had its climactic eruption.
ohh yeah, i remember my “i’m just a lesbian in a man’s body” and “wanting to be the #1 twitch egirl” eras. it took me a lot of hints before i figured this out
oh yeah this was my cope
‘i’m a boy and i like girls i just think lesbians are better than straight men in every way and i wish i was one all the time but im just a man so it doesn’t matter’
me when i was younger: damn i really think i'd be fine if i was born as a dude.... totally fine with being a girl. but....
oh you poor poor sweet summer child /pats younger self on the head
also followed by "gee i wonder what its like to NOT have boobs."
as well as... "hmm kinda wish i had a dick sometimes..." (i do not want a dick, but if i could snap my fingers and just give my boobs to the nearest trans woman in need, i'd do it in a heartbeat lol)
My spouse frequently referred to me as being so gay for liking a girl for many years before I figured out the whole gender identity thing out. I just thought that they were joking, took me a while to figure out how right they were 😂
